10 Exciting Signs He Is Getting Ready to Ask You Out

You like a guy. You two have been talking to each other for a while. And your mood lights up in his presence. Am I right? 

Okay, that’s wonderful, but I know something’s concerning you – “Why hasn’t he asked you out yet?”

See, maybe the guy is trying to ensure you’re the right person to make the move. So, don’t worry, sweetie. If he’s sure about you, he’ll ask you out as soon as possible. 

And let me tell you, there are some signs to know what’s happening inside him. Try looking for the right clues, and you’ll understand if he’s getting ready to ask you out. As always, I’ll help you gauge those hints in this blog. 

How Do You Know if a Guy is Getting Ready to Ask You Out? 10 Clues

1. He Wants to Know Your Schedule

If the guy seems curious about your daily schedule lately, it’s a ringing bell. Why would he try to understand your work time, when you’re going out, or when you have lunch? 

Well, maybe because he’s preparing himself to ask you out soon. Just before the showdown, he’s having a sneak-peak into your daily life, trying to understand your preferences and leisure hours. 

I have actually experienced this scenario myself when my lover Ankit asked me out for the first time. He was suddenly very interested in knowing my study hours, if I love going out in the evening, my favorite cuisine, and so on. 

I wasn’t sure why he was asking these until one fine evening when he dropped me the sweetest lines on WhatsApp: “Will you go out with me for lunch next week?”

2. He Inquires About Your Past Relationship

Even though the guy hasn’t brought up anything about your previous relationships so far, he might try digging into the past a little bit if he’s preparing to ask you out.

Don’t get him wrong, my dear. He is not doing so to resurface old wounds. Instead, he is trying to understand your state of mind, whether you’re over your past experiences entirely and if you’re ready for a fresh start with someone else. 

He doesn’t want to create an embarrassing moment for both of you by asking you out in a rushed decision. That’s why he’s taking the time, analyzing the situation, and trying to comprehend if it’s good to go. 

3. He Tries to Understand Your Preferences on Men’s Attire

Now, that’s bold. But the guy is asking you about your preference so he can dress accordingly on your date. Isn’t it sweet? This was the sweetest thing I liked about Ankit before he proposed a date.

“Do you like men in black jackets?” 
“What’s your take on men with beards?”
“Do you love it when guys apply cologne?”

Ankit would ask me these, and deep inside, I could feel maybe he wanted to dress up to impress me. I didn’t let him understand I had already gauged his intentions. The best part? He did turn up in a black hoodie on our date because I told him about my affinity towards black. 

So, my dear, if the guy has been asking you a lot of questions recently about your favorite men’s suits, how you like them to be dressed, and all, count it as a sign he’s preparing to ask you out. 

4. He has a lot of Questions about Your Favorite Places

“Do you like the museum?” 
“Do you love to chat over coffee in a cozy café, or are you into fancy restaurants?” 
“Have you ever visited the roadside park?”

He’ll keep asking you these questions and try to have clarity. He’s keen on understanding your preference for hanging out and will plan a date accordingly. 

Again, I can’t help but share a small glimpse of my conversation with Ankit:

Me: Why are you so busy figuring out my favorite place?
Ankit: You’ll understand when the time comes.

I was confused after he repeatedly asked me about my favorite place. And yes, I finally understood when he proposed a lunch date. 

5. The Flirting Intensifies

You might have been talking for a while now, but will suddenly notice that he has become more flirty these days. He’s always complimenting your pictures, the beauty of your eyes, your fashion sense, and whatnot.

You’re enjoying this attention and can’t help but wonder, “Why is he flirting so much?” 

Well, there is a high chance he will ask you out soon. It’s just a trailer before the entire movie where he wants to ensure the ice melts completely. 

6. He Asks You Directly Whether You Like Him

Some men are extremely straightforward. So, if he likes you and plans to ask you out soon, he might not hesitate twice to come straight to the point. 

“Do you like spending time with me?” 

He wants to ensure you’re comfortable in his company and will hatch a date plan with your approval. 

You might be awestruck at this sudden gesture, but let me tell you, my girl – if he is this bold, you will indeed have a wonderful time with him. Oh yes, sweetie, I can see the blushing smile on your face. 😉  

7. He is Always Trying to Impress You

Sometimes, he is a drama-king, trying to have your attention. Other times, he’s the rock star singing your favorite song or a wordsmith melting you with flattering words. 

Now, it isn’t restricted to words but also extends to his actions. Be it opening the door for you or walking you to the car. Watching your favorite series, and the list goes on and on. 

So, why is he doing so? Because he wants to be in your good books. He doesn’t want to hear ‘no’ from your side, so he tries to impress you, make you feel important, and let you understand that he’s always there anytime you need him.

8. He Asks You to Check Out a Particular Place 

One fine morning, you wake up to his text – “Hey, check out this restaurant. Do you like it?” 

Why on earth will a guy send you a place to check out and ask for your opinion? Perhaps because he’s planning to take you there. He is just finalizing the date location by knowing your likes and dislikes. 

If you turn down that place, he might search for another place and ask you again to see that one. The cycle would repeat until you approve one of the places.

9. His Friends Drop Hints

Who’s the best person to get rid of all the confusion? The guy’s close friend.

If you’re on his mind and he’s been planning to ask you out soon, he might have discussed it with his close pals. And you know how friends are, right? Like obviously, they won’t spill their friend’s secret in front of you, but they can’t help but drop you some hints. 

“Hey Mary, get ready for a surprise pretty soon.” 
“Hey Mary, James told us that you like the French Vanilla coffee. We’re planning to check out a café which is specially known for it. You wanna join?” 

So, you see. Why would the guy discuss your favorite food item with his friends? Because he’s so into you! He might have plans to ask you out soon, which he has already discussed with his buddies. And they are here, trying to serve you some clue. 

10. He Opens Up More About Himself

If the guy is really into you and is getting ready to ask you out, he will try to be more of an open book with you to increase transparency and trust. 

If you’re interested in him, you would’ve asked him personal questions about his previous experiences, favorite things, and so on. Now, he’ll come forward and try sharing more about him. 

It’s not oversharing but his way of understanding if you’re equally interested in listening to him, just how he listens to you. Not only does he feel comfortable sharing about himself with you, but he also wants to cut off any wall that might be present before the first date he’s planning. 

I observed something similar with Ankit, too. He was an open book the last two days before he asked me out. He discussed things on his own, what made happy and upset, his favorite gestures, etc. Later, he admitted he was trying to make things as transparent as crystal between us before he made a move on me. 

Wrapping Up

That sums up our discussion. 

I have one friendly suggestion: don’t jam your head while trying to catch the clues and overthinking what’s taking him so long to ask you out. If it’s meant to be, it’ll eventually fall into place, my dear.

Right now, enjoy the moments with the guy right now and cherish the feel-good feeling. When he finally asks you out, pick the best outfit, put on a lovely smile, and rock the date.

If he doesn’t (that’s less likely, provided he has displayed these signs), it’s okay, too. You never know when something far beautiful is waiting for you!