13 Adorable Signs He Has a Crush on You (& Can’t Hide It!)

Look who’s here to find out if a cute guy has a crush on her!

Welcome, sweetie. I’m so glad to see you here. So tell me, how’s it going? Can’t stop thinking about him all day? 

Trust me when I say this: this stage before dating is the best! The little gazes, sweet smiles, a bit of nervousness, cute texts: these are the moments that make it special! (Keep blushing…you look beautiful that way. 🤗)

And yes, I know this stages comes with a lot of confusion too; does he like you or are you just overthinking it?

But don’t worry, I’m going to help you with it. Sit relaxed, keep holding your smile, and start reading!

How to Know a Guy Has a Crush on You? 13 Clues

1. He Texts You First & Keeps the Conversation Going.

When a guy has a crush on you, you’ll find him initiating conversations, sending thoughtful texts and sweet check-ins.^[1] For example:
“Hey, it seems it will rain soon, have you reached home?” 
“You were looking pretty in that red dress today.”
“Have you started preparing for next week’s exam?”

And just when you think the conversation is over, he comes up with something new to keep it going. He never runs out of topic to check up on you.

That’s just his way of understanding your preferences and hobbies while spending some quality time texting with you.

2. He Never Forgets Your Little Details.

Suppose you casually mentioned once that you are fond of orchids. The guy might surprise you with a beautiful orchid bouquet someday. Or you might say that you love chocolate pastries, and he would bring you some of them at lunchtime. 

You might be going to a party today, and suddenly, your phone will ding with this notification: “Hey, enjoy your party today! Have fun.”

And you start thinking: how did he know? 

Well sweetie, you probably told him about it casually, but he held onto every word. That’s what happens when someone has a major crush on you.

3. His Social Media Gives Him Away!

Caught him sharing those ‘hints’ on his social media stories? Girl, let me tell you… those aren’t random posts, they’re all meant for you!

Keep an eye on his stories. You’ll see him sharing sweet captions like:
“Love is in the air.”
“Falling for her eyes.”
“Have I met my queen?”

It’s his way way of getting your attention and tempting you to reply to his story.

Quick tip: He might not share the stories with other friends and select “just you” as a viewer. So, the next time you see him posting a love quote, just casually double-check with your mutual friends the next day to see if they saw that post too. If they didn’t, you now know what it means 😉.

4. He Fixes Your Hair. 

You know those heart-melting moments in romantic movies where the guy tucks a strand of hair behind the girl’s ear? When a guy does this in real life… trust me, it’s a clear indication he likes you!

OMG, even I can’t stop blushing while writing this; I can only imagine how fast your heart is beating reading this one. 

Let me share something. Before Ankit and I started dating, we were once standing in the university parking lot on a windy day. The wind blew my hair across my face, and he gently tucked it behind my ears. I could only say ‘thanks’ in my lowest voice, with all the butterflies dancing in my stomach. 😊

I’m sure the guy must have done something similar at least once with you. And just like you still feel happy thinking about that moment, I bet he remembers it too, probably smiling to himself whenever he thinks about it!

5. Mr. Confident Turns Shy Around You.

No matter how confident, well-spoken, or great an orator he usually is, you might observe him feeling nervous around you.

Why? Because even the smoothest guys can turn into shy puppies around someone they’re crushing on.^[2] (Which is pretty sweet, actually)

Want to spot these cute nervous signs? Observe his body language closely when with you.

• Does he lean in slightly, almost hesitantly, while talking?
• Is there a shy smile he tries (but fails) to hide?
• Do you catch him fidgeting or pressing his fingers together during conversations?

If you notice this behavior, it’s likely he has a crush on you and gets butterflies when you’re around.

I’ve seen this so many times with Ankit, and I’ll admit, I used to get those nervous butterflies too!

6. He Opens Up a Lot With You. 

If he is an introvert, it might be a little challenging to understand what’s going on inside him. That’s where this clue helps: he opens up a lot to you. 

So, everyone says he’s usually quiet and reserved, but with you? He shares stories about his childhood, talks about his dreams, and isn’t afraid to show his vulnerable side. He trusts you with his stories and values your opinion.

I know it might seem random, but it’s actually not. He’s definitely crushing on you.

7. His Compliments Hit Different.

See. There are two types of compliments: the casual “nice dress!” you get from friends, and then there’s his kind of compliments… the ones that replay in your head and make you smile all day.

The sweetest part? He notices things others might miss. Sure, he’ll compliment your new dress or hairstyle, but he also notices when you’re being kind, finds your jokes funny (even the not-so-great ones!), and always has something nice to say even on your off days.

You might think, “Oh, he’s just being friendly!” Come on dear, don’t be so naïve. You can clearly see the difference between friendly compliments and the ones that come from someone who has a crush on you, can’t you?

8. He Makes a Way to Sit Beside You. 

Be it the classroom or office desk, the guy always finds a way to sit beside you. Plus, he doesn’t mind giving a few weird excuses for the same, for example:
“The air is not sufficient here. I think I’ll shift from this bench.” 
“I’m not able to see the projector properly from here, so I’ll go there.”
“There is too much in the front; I think I better shift there.”

So, why do you think he’s making so much effort? It’s because he has a strong crush on you.

In my case, not just Ankit, but I also used to do the same to get a chance to sit beside him. Tbh, they were some of the best days of my life.

9. The “So… Are You Single?” Questions

You’re having a perfectly normal conversation about your day and he suddenly shifts onto relationships. He’ll smoothly slip in questions like “So… are you seeing anyone?” or “What’s your type?”

He tries to be subtle about it, but his curiosity gives him away! He might ask your friends about your relationship status, or casually bring up dating topics to see your reaction. Sometimes he’ll even share his own dating stories, secretly hoping you’ll share yours too!

Why does he do this? Simple! When a guy has a crush on you, the thought of you being with someone else makes his heart skip a beat (and not in a good way!).

He wants to know if there’s a chance, even if he’s too shy to make his move just yet!

10. He is Gentler With You.

Maybe you two didn’t start off on the best note – a disagreement here, a misunderstanding there. But lately, there’s something different about his behavior around you. It’s softer and warmer.

The way he speaks to you now has this extra touch of care. His voice is softer and his words are more thoughtful. Even in group discussions where opinions clash, you’ll notice he’s particularly mindful of your feelings.

When a guy has a crush on you, he wants to erase any past tensions and create new, sweeter memories with you. And he’s doing exactly just that.

11. He Can’t Take His Eyes Off You.

You’re busy at your laptop, laughing at your friend’s joke, or just fixing your hair in the mirror… and there he is, completely mesmerized. (Not in a creepy way, obviously).

And the sweetest part? When you catch him staring, one of two adorable things happens: either he shyly looks away (totally giving himself away!) or he gives you that soft, genuine smile. That magical moment when your eyes meet and you both share a smile… aww sooo sweet.

Let me share something personal: Before Ankit and I started dating, I caught him doing this so many times in college! And every time, my heart would do this little happy dance.

Trust me. Those lingering glances and quick look-away aren’t just random. They clearly show the guy has a secret crush on you but isn’t ready to say it out loud just yet!

12. He Recommends You Romantic Songs.

He might send you romantic songs with messages like, “Hey, this reminded me of you” or “Listen to this when you get time!” And the next day, he’s eager to know, “Did you listen to it? Wasn’t it beautiful?”

Well, sweetie, they aren’t just usual song recommendations. When a guy sends you romantic songs, he’s secretly hoping you’ll read between the lines. Those songs about falling for someone’s smile? About getting butterflies? About wanting to be more than friends? He’s trying to tell you something!

If it still confuses you, check with your mutual friends once. Has he recommended the same songs to them? No? Then, I’m sure you know what’s happening.

13. He Is Protective and Respectful.

Watch out for these moments:

• You’re crossing the road together, and his hands automatically hold yours. 
• You’re in a crowded place, and he instinctively places his hand on your shoulder or stays close by to make sure you feel safe.
• You’re eating something, and he doesn’t hesitate to hand you a napkin before you even ask for it.

At these times, he’s not trying to be your hero; he just wants to be someone you can count on!

And it’s not just about physical protection. He’s protective of your feelings too! You’ll notice how he subtly changes the topic when someone brings up something that might upset you, or how he’s always the first to stand up for you in group discussions.

A guy will only be this thoughtful and protective of someone who holds a special place in his heart.

But Mohar, What If He’s Just Being Friendly?

Yeah, that’s quite possible. But don’t worry, this table will help you know the truth:-

When It’s Just Friendship	When It’s Probably a Crush
Behaves the same all the time	Different when alone with you
Quick, casual compliments	Detailed, thoughtful compliments
Remembers basic details	Remembers tiny preferences
Openly talks about other crushes	Avoids romance talk, gets nervous
Regular eye contact	Long gazes, shy glances
Happy in group settings	Creates solo moments
Simple texts	Texts with emojis & follow-up questions

Common Misconceptions About Crush Behaviors

1. “If he’s not texting first, he’s not interested.”
Actually: Some guys are shy or worried about seeming too eager. It’s about the quality of conversations, not who initiates them.

2. “He must like my best friend because he’s always around when she’s there.”
Actually: He might be using your friend’s presence as an excuse to be near you without making it obvious.

3. “If he’s not complimenting my looks, he doesn’t find me attractive.”
Actually: Some guys are more comfortable complimenting your personality, achievements, or skills first. It feels safer for them!

4. “He’s super friendly with everyone, so his kindness means nothing.”
Actually: Watch for the little differences. Does he treat you a bit more specially than others?

5. “If he was interested, he would have asked me out already.”
Actually: Not every guy has the confidence to ask someone out right away. Some take time to feel secure about their chances.

6. “He talks about other girls sometimes, so he can’t like me.”
Actually: He might be trying to see your reaction or make you jealous.

7. “He hasn’t added me on social media, so he’s not interested.”
Actually: He might be overthinking it. Some guys wait to send that friend request because they’re worried about seeming desperate.

What to Do Next?

My dear, you’re living the best moments right now. All these sweet talks, little flirts, and romantic gazes will make your heart want more. The guy is falling for you, and you are loving every bit of it. 

There’s no need to rush things. Get to know everything about him and show him your true self. You don’t want to come across desperate, but you have to show him that you’re equally interested.

Compliment him often, be an attentive listener when he speaks, and open up with him. Things will start falling into place slowly. Some day, one of you will eventually burst out because of the overflow of feelings and that’s when you’ll get to decide if you wanna take things further.

Till then, just go with the flow and enjoy this phase. I know it would take a lot of patience but the best things take time, don’t they?

Friendly suggestion: If you want this phase to bloom into a beautiful relationship, it’s better not to play hard to get. Most men are attracted to simplicity and dignity; they don’t want a war to win over something.

Wrapping Up

With that, we put a period to our discussion. Everything seems so bright around you, doesn’t it? 

The sweet violin tune, the birds chirping, and the sound of the leaves together seem to sing a love song. You’re falling in love, so is he! Love is in the air! 

Enjoy every bit of these precious moments, sweetie. I’m sure the universe has only the best plans for you!

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References

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2. Hughes, S. M., Harrison, M. A., & de Haan, K. M. (2020). Perceived nervous reactions during initial attraction and their potential adaptive value. Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology, 6(1), 74–84. https://doi.org/10.1007/s40750-019-00127-y