17 Solo Date Ideas That’ll Make You Forget FOMO!

Updated On:

Dec 02, 2024

Who says you need a partner for a great date? Check out 17 cool ideas for a solo date that’ll make you feel amazing all by yourself.


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Who says dates are all about putting on your best looks, visiting the most decorated place with your partner, and having a super romantic lunch?

You could go on solo dates, spend some hours self-rejuvenating, and have a wonderful time!

I didn’t believe solo dates could be so much fun until I went on one. Since then, I’ve been to a few of these, and trust me, spending some quality time with yourself might be the exact therapy you’re looking for! That’s the break you need from every chaos taking a toll on your brain. 

Have no clue how to make such a plan? No worries! As always, I’ve got your back. So relax, and let me take you through 17 solo date ideas that will help you freshen up your mind.

1. Salon/Spa Time!

An illustration showing a woman receiving a facial treatment at a spa, with red lipstick and a white headband, lying on a massage table while an esthetician's hands perform a facial massage.

If you haven’t had the time to look after yourself in a while, spending some time at the spa or salon could be a great idea. Your skin and hair deserve the attention too, right? 

My first solo date was to my local salon, where I got my hair colored. Walking out of the parlor with a new glam look, all confident, is so much worth it and really charges you up and motivate you to get back to daily chores at full pace.

2. Visit Your Favorite Café.

There’s nothing better for foodies than to visit the café of their choice. Order your favorite items and engage in the delicacies amidst a happy heart, smiling face, and lots of selfies!

And hey, don’t let thoughts like “What if people judge me for going alone” bother you. You eat, you pay your own, and you’re done! No one owes anything to anyone in this world. Soothe your taste buds, pack something for home if you want to, and go back with a satisfied stomach! 

3. A Movie Afternoon.

An illustration of a smiling woman in a yellow sweater watching a movie alone at a theater, holding a striped popcorn container while seated among red cinema chairs.

Well, this has to be your go-to date option if you’re a movie freak. Book the exclusive balcony tickets to the nearest theater, grab a popcorn bucket, and enjoy your show time!

Don’t want to do a theater party all alone? I get it. Set your room up for a cozy movie experience. Charge your laptop, keep your favorite movie ready in your drive, grab some snacks, and you’re all set to have a perfect watch time from the comforts of your bed. 

4. Attend a Workshop.

Well, if you’d like to try something outside the traditional fun adventure, attending a workshop could be a nice solo date idea. It could be on any academic, professional, or creative topic-  marketing techniques, submitting a research paper, earning from home, gardening basics, or anything else.

Attending a virtual or in-person session helps you spend a productive time, and you get to meet new people. Brownie points if the workshop has lunch arrangements. 😁 A date filled with new yet meaningful lessons could be the ultimate break you need from your daily life.

5. Cook Dinner.

An illustration of a bearded man cooking at home, wearing an apron while stirring a pan in a sunny kitchen with plants, fresh ingredients, and modern appliances.

Have you long been away from the kitchen? Got some time off? Then, best to utilize it cooking some tasty meals. Tune in to some music while you enjoy a super cool cooking time at home. Any recipes on mind?

A jaw-dropping plate of Sushi, some bacon sandwiches, double cheeseburger? If you know the recipe well and well! If you don’t, there are a lot of YouTube tutorials floating there, check that out and be ready with your hand-made magic to leave your taste buds flattered by the taste.

6. Go for a Solo Drive.

Love driving but haven’t spent many days behind the steering wheel? Get your car, decide a place, tune in to some soft music, and stroll across the streets. Don’t overspeed or you’ll miss the fun.

Spending a day admiring the picturesque beauty of your city in your own company will bring a lot of positive vibes. Your eyes are tired of looking at the computer screen the entire week; it’s time to give them some refreshment and pleasure. 

7. Visit an Amusement Park.

An illustration of a joyful woman with raised arms riding a yellow bumper car at an amusement park, with a Ferris wheel and carnival tents in the background.

If you’re into lots of fun and happy adventures, an amusement park could be a great solo date idea. Don’t forget to capture snaps when you take the rides and share them with your friends’ group. Let them be a bit mad at you for having all the fun alone. 😉

This adventurous break might be your need of the hour. When you come back home all tired and with a happy heart, you’re sure to be all set to face the challenging week lying ahead of you. 

8. Make a Photo Album.

Well, if you’re looking to do something creative with a touch of nostalgia, looking back at some of the most beautiful moments of your life and making a photo collage could be a great date idea.

Gather the pictures you want to paste into the album, visit the local print shop and get them printed, buy an album, and get started with your creativity. You could make it like a mini magazine, where you write down mini notes beside each photograph.

It will be a day filled with smiles, and tears, reminiscing the old times and cherishing every bit of it. 

9. Gardening and Greens.

An illustration of a bearded man in overalls gardening in a flower-filled garden, with sunflowers, tending to soil with gardening tools and pots around him.

Another low-key and calming solo date idea could be spending time taking care of the plants in your yard and murmuring your favorite songs. To make things a bit more interesting, shoot little clips of yourself in the garden. 

Last month, I had this kind of a date, where I spent around two to three hours in my garden, admiring the flowers and the chirping birds around. Of course, you can’t do this on a bright sunny day, but if it’s a cold and cloudy afternoon, the experience will be worth it! 

10. Attend a Live Concert.

Is your favorite musician in the city? If yes, what are you waiting for? Get yourself a ticket, put on your best clothes, and listen to your dream voice live.

The scintillating lights, thousands of people cheering around, your favorite singer in the center stage as you listen and enjoy in amazement. What better way to treat yourself on a day off, right?

There is very little to argue whether you should go alone or not. Because both you and I know, you should. 

11. Coffee/Tea Tasting.

If you’re a coffee lover, or someone who can’t stay away from two cups of tea every day, then this one will be a great date idea.

You can try a new coffee shop and explore some new flavors of tea or coffee there. Who knows you might love a flavor so much that you add it to your routine for the next few months.

Treasures are everywhere, you gotta find one. One of my solo dates was tasting vanilla-flavored coffee. My taste buds still get excited when I remember the taste. 😍

12. Solo Time at the Beach.

An illustration of a woman in sunglasses and denim shorts relaxing on a beach at sunset, hair flowing in the wind as she sits on a towel by the ocean.

A solo time at the beach amidst the vastness of the ocean and lots of vitamin D might exactly be your type of date.

But if you can’t go for a long vacation in the Maldives, how about setting up your house’s swimming pool to look like a beach holiday?

Grab your favorite drink, sit under the sun, and let the serene atmosphere around you take care of you. It is your time to relax, swim, listen to the sound of the water, and enjoy a unique date in your way.

13. Visit a Planetarium.

If you get too excited about the moons, stars, and planets, think no more, It’s planetarium time!

Spend some amazing hours watching the planets and learning some lesser-known, yet, the most interesting facts about them. With this kinda date, you get multiple flavors at once. It’s inspiring, productive, learning-packed, and fun at the same time!

Don’t forget to shoot some mini clips on this date; you’ll love scrolling through them in your free time. I haven’t tried this yet but hopefully soon.

14. A Book Cafe Visit Must Be Worth It.

Book cafes are trendy now. I bet you’ll like visiting one if you’re looking to spend some time amidst the books along with some delicious snacks.

I went to a book cafe on one of my solo dates and spent the time over a chilled latte while reading “Agatha Christie.” Man, what a day it was! 

Try it once. You’re gonna feel so pleased as you leave the cafe that you can’t help but wait to be back there!

15. Photography Outing.

An illustration of a smiling woman in a yellow shirt taking photographs in nature, wearing a backpack while surrounded by mountains, trees and flowers.

Do you love clicking images? If so, grab your camera and head out for a photographic outing. Visit the most unique places in your city and capture their beauty. (Thank me later in the comments box when likes flood your Instagram after uploading the pictures)

My elder brother is passionate about photography. In his free time, he often prefers this idea to boost his productivity. A photography outing is definitely a lovely idea to hone your hobby and spend some amazing time doing what you like.

16. Visit a Nearby Town/Village.

If you have a day or two to spare, you could go all the way to the nearby town or village and spend some time exploring the weather, nature, people, and other habits there. Of course, have your phone ready for taking the snapshots you would love to show to your daily friends when you go back. 

This can be a nice idea for a change of atmosphere. New people, a new place, a new room for a day while learning new facts about the town is going to be an interesting date and would come with a lot of excitement. 

17. Decorate Your Room. 

How about giving your room a new look? Get some wall stickers, bonsai plants, little lamps, and other decor items of your choice.

Now, spend your time revamping the look of your room, fixing the bookshelf, and a new bed sheet, cleaning the glasses, and fitting the plants on your window. 

After finishing up, call your parents or a friend to rate the new designer in-house! If you’re a social media freak, don’t forget to click the all-new look and share it with your followers! They’re gonna love it, I’m sure.  

Wrapping Up

And that finishes up our discussion on some of the coolest solo date ideas. You never know how much fun a certain thing is until you try it.

Of course, the daily chores, and office/college schedule are keeping you glued to your desk. But hey, you need a break to focus!

Pick on any of these ideas and have a wonderful time. You’ll be thrilled to get back to work/studies with full energy and a fulfilling mind. 

Which of these are you gonna try out? Let me know in the comments below!

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Mohar

Mohar Bhattacharjee

Mohar, a Master’s student in Comparative Literature from Kolkata, has been a digital content writer since 2019.

With over 4 years of experience, she creates practical and relatable guides on relationships, dating, and self-help, drawing from her personal experiences. Mohar ensures her content is accurate and insightful by incorporating real-life examples.

In her free time, you can catch her watching cricket, some romantic Bollywood movies or taking a power nap.

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